
Who is Aidan Hennebry?
“He is defined and ambiguous. He is a boy, yet a man. He is a mystery, a question mark; an enigma…”
Have I piqued your interest yet?
Okay okay okay. Enough with all the mystery. I don’t know anyone that might say that stuff is true. And as much fun as it is to speak about myself in the third person…
Hey! I’m Aidan.
You’ve gotten this far because you want to know who I am outside of work. Is that fair?
Well, I’m a lot of things. I have a lot of different roles in life and I have a lot different hobbies and interests. You could say I wear a lot of hats; though that’s more figuratively than literally.
Here’s who I am when I’m not working.
Aidan Hennebry: The Husband
Beginning anywhere else would be a grave mistake. As you could ever know me, I am only one half of a person, and my other half is my darling wife Leanne.
We got hitched in 2014 and have since started a family (more on that in a bit). In some ways Leanne is my opposite: she is calm in all circumstances, she is easygoing, she stresses about nothing and worries about very little. Yet in other ways we are a pair: we both love food, travelling, documenting the life of our family, talking, and our siblings (among countless other similarities).
We sometimes daydream about buying a travel trailer so we can load up our kids and see North America. We’ll see if it ever happens, but it’s a dream we’ve had for a few years now.
We also both love Chick-fil-A, Target, Longhorn Steakhouse, Chilis, and just about any other combination of American shopping and food (If you know what Wawa is, you know another love of mine).
Leanne makes me the man I am. To try to summarize our marriage in this confined space is almost insulting to the amount all that our shared days have given me.
In so many ways, I owe my life to this woman. I won the lottery.
Aidan Hennebry: The Dad
All my life I have known I want to be a dad. Without a doubt. Mine passed away at age 11, and I was lucky enough to have my mom remarry a really incredible guy that is so, so much more than just a step-dad to me. I have a soft spot for father-child relationships and the impact they have on a person (perhaps for good reason). About Time makes me cry every time.
Leo was born in 2018 and he has changed my life countless times over. Betty was born in 2020 (just before the pandemic hit!) and has done the same. Raising these two munkamigos (that’s a combination of monkey and amigos) is easily one of the greatest callings of my life.
I am far from a perfect dad. I am likely not even a great one. But I want to be. I fail constantly but my kids deserve the world and I want my life to reflect me trying to give that to them.
If I accomplished only a few things in life, one of the greatest would be to raise my kids in such a way that they want to be in my life as much as I want to be in theirs.
It’s hard work. I don’t even know that as well as Leanne does. But I wouldn’t trade these guys in for anything.
Aidan Hennebry: The Businessman
I can’t touch on the aspects of my identity without at least acknowledging this briefly.
Photography was my first endeavour to make money on my own. Leanne encouraged me to put prices on my website, so I did, and that led to Hush Hush Photography which we ran from 2014 - 2021. In that time, I picked up video which has changed my career for the better. The whole time I was doing Hush Hush, I did graphic design on the side as well. No more desire to be a designer for a living, though.
I became self-employed in September of 2016 and was until October of 2021. It was a ride. All my life I believed I wanted to work for myself (I thought everyone did) and for that time, it was the right choice. Being self-employed gave me so much, and taught me so much about business and people.
In the Fall of 2021, I jumped into being the Marketing Manager at Boshart Industries. The team I work with is incredible and the opportunity to be in such a specialized role allows me to explore more of marketing in a way that being self-employed couldn’t. I am having a blast being an employee again.
My mind is always working. I don’t have a “nothing box” in my brain like most men do. I can’t.stop.thinking. about trying to be better than I was last week.
Aidan Hennebry: The Traveller
Should I win the lottery (which would be extra-unexpected because the only lotto tickets I’ve ever claimed were gifted on occasional birthdays), you’ll have more luck running into me halfway across the globe than you might at a park down the street.
My dad is from New Jersey and I grew up travelling back there once or twice a year. Those are my earliest travel memories.
Then I met Leanne, and she really gave me the travel bug. Since being married, we’ve voyaged to (among others):
Italy (Paestum > Amalfi > Positano > Capri > Rome > Florence > Venice; in 3 weeks)
NYC 2x
Boston
Montreal more times than I can count
Florida… many times
Alberta (Canmore, Banff, Jasper)
Nevada & California (Vegas > Joshua Tree > Palm Springs > LA > San Diego)
Lord willing, our next major European voyage will be Ireland. I am a dual citizen (my biological dad was born there) and we sometimes contemplate the idea of relocating there for a few years to more-readily explore more of Europe.
Aidan Hennebry: The Writer
Of all the creative endeavours I have, writing might be the most pure. Or at least parts of it.
Towards the end of high school, I began creative writing (deeply introspective short stories told in unconventional narratives) as a means of sorting through the many thoughts in my head. I’ve done this off and on since then; going through periods of writing once or twice a day, to once or twice a month.
When Leanne and I started dating, she bought me my first typewriter which had been a dream of mine for some time. I had always wanted a typewriter purely because I thought they were cool. I didn’t realize how accessible a hobby it really was. I use my collection of typewriters weekly; primarily for writing letters to friends, though I still jot down a to-do list or a piece of prose as well.
My love of cinematography and Hollywood naturally led me back to the art of screenwriting, and this year I’ve written 2 of my own feature-length screenplays. Purely for fun, though, as I have absolutely no desire to work in Hollywood professionally. The first screenplay is a love story about a couple who are a week away from divorcing but go on one last trip to Ireland together and possibly end up rekindling their love. The second screenplay is a bank heist set in a grimy industrial town, centred around a protagonist who wants to make his girl’s life better, and help out his friends along the way.
I’ve had marketing blogs off and on over the years of being self-employed, but only in the past few months have I felt inexplicably compelled to share my knowledge more frequently and urgently. I have dreams to write a book (business-related, in addition to any sort of anthology I hope to compose someday). Before I get around to a book though, I love the immediacy and practicality of a blog for publishing strong content and immediately allowing others to make use of it.
As evidenced by these photos, I intend to make my kids as big a fan of writing as I am. Whatever form they choose, I’ll be thrilled to spur them on. Currently, they love jamming the keys and pulling out the ribbon. I’ll take what I can get.
Aidan Hennebry: The Musician
I began playing bass at age 11. Acoustic guitar came next at 13. Somewhere in there I learned how to drum (more so that I have rhythm; I am by no means a drummer), and I can sing very poorly from time to time. A little over a year ago, Leanne bought me a MIDI synth for my birthday, and that began the next major chapter in my musical life.
Music will always have been my first love.
Growing up, I was very into the mid-late 00’s emo and punk-rock scene: Blink 182, Fall Out Boy, Good Charlotte, Simple Plan, Death From Above 1979, Alexisonfire, Billy Talent, Sum 41, We The Kings. In all fairness, I still listen to most of these guys regularly.
At some point towards the end of high school I expanded my tastes to be a little more folky (Tallest Man On Earth, Mumford & Sons, City & Colour, Civil Wars, Bishop Allen) and electronic (Owl City, MSTRKRFT, DJ Champion).
Leanne got me into show tunes (Hairspray is my fav, though Leanne regularly puts on Wicked, Aida, Mamma Mia). More recently, we really love Hamilton and Greatest Showman. Also, if you watched NBC’s Smash, we’ll get along.
The most I ever performed was worship on Sunday mornings. Nowadays, I’m a bedroom artist. The electronic stuff I make is ambient-inspired stuff and non-lyrical dance music. I love (good) EDM.
Aidan Hennebry: The Theologian
You can call me a theologian insomuch that anyone who has a thought about God is a theologian. It would be more accurate to call me a Christian who actively seeks to learn more about scripture, church history, and the beliefs that shape my life.
I gave my life to Christ at a youth conference in 2010. It changed me completely.
I am a Christian because I read the scriptures and find them to be true when I put them into practice. I am a Christian because I believe that we, as a humanity, are inherently sinners and broken by nature. I am a Christian because I felt the Holy Spirit enter my heart when I felt God beckoning me closer towards him. The hunger I had for something bigger than myself in that moment is something I believe all human beings are born with.
One key distinction I’d like to make here: I am by no means any “better” of a person because of my belief in Jesus. I am just as sinful and flawed as I always have been. But because I love God and am thankful for my salvation, I am deeply moved to live out the gospel, spread the good news, and seek to continually try to improve myself.
A lot of people who have a “problem with Jesus / the church” often just have problems with other Christians, and not Jesus himself. This is because we are still just as screwed up as anyone else. It is a paradox that we are held to a higher standard but just as flawed as ever.
Christianity is one beggar telling another beggar where he found bread.
If you have questions about my beliefs, I would love to answer them. Please don’t hesitate to ask.
I don’t have all the answers, but I believe I have a few.
Aidan Hennebry: The Dreamer
Here’s possibly the least easy one to write, yet the one that might summarize me the best.
If you’ve started noticing any trends about me by reading through this page, it’s that I spend a lot of time wondering about stuff.
I wonder a lot about where my life is heading. I think a lot about my career and how I want it to form around my life; not the other way around.
I wonder about the place I live and how it affects me. I wonder about picking up and moving somewhere far away with my family; like Palm Springs, Las Vegas, or Italy.
I wonder a lot about eternity and what comes after our very short time on earth. I wonder about what heaven will be like and what we’re going to spend eternity doing.
I wonder about ideas and possibilities. I think often about what could be and how I might achieve it.
If travelling through time was like moving from the base of a tree upwards, I like to spend time mentally exploring what each one of those branches could bring. I have a deep appreciation for the wonder of this world, and how we are so much more in charge of our fate than many of us realize.
All in all, I think. A lot. I wonder a lot. I dream a lot.
This what could be has gotten me into some pretty dissatisfied ruts at times. If you’re always comparing your present to a made up future, you can easily find nothing is good enough.
But my life is plenty good. In fact, it’s objectively incredible. I am lucky to have the life I have. I try not to let my dreaming trick me into thinking I need more and more. The world loves to push that idea: more money, more happiness. But I have not met many genuinely happy rich people. The people I admire most in life have their priorities in order, and money rarely makes the list. I try not to forget that.